You don’t need to push or check in on him. The best support is encouragement. Letting him know you notice the effort he’s making and creating space for connection when he reaches for it.
How can I support him while he’s in the program?
Expect subtle but powerful shifts:
- Less shutting down or exploding during hard conversations
- More willingness to share what’s really going on inside
- A calmer, steadier presence at home
- A partner who feels more grounded in himself (which means more available to you)
What changes can I expect to see?
No, this is his space. The program is designed for men to do privately, at their own pace. You don’t need to log in, join calls, or add anything to your already full plate.
Will I be involved in the program?
First off, you’re not alone. Many men land here because their partner is the one searching for answers. That’s not a bad thing; it means you care.
The Legacy Framework isn’t about “fixing” your partner or making him someone he’s not. It’s about giving him the tools to express himself, manage stress, and connect more deeply. When he learns that, you both benefit.
I’m the wife/girlfriend, and I’m the one reading this page. What do I need to know?
Yes. I’m a licensed therapist and resiliency advisor, with over a decade of experience helping men navigate relationships, stress, and identity shifts. This program is built on science, practical tools, and respect for men! No shaming, no gimmicks.