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If you’re in a relationship with someone who shuts down when things get hard, you’re not imagining how painful that feels. You bring something up because it matters to you.You’re frustrated, overwhelmed, or hurt.And instead of engagement, you’re met with silence. From the outside, that silence can feel like indifference. Like avoidance. Like you’re talking […]

If you’re the guy who goes quiet when your partner is upset…this is for you. Maybe you freeze when they’re frustrated about having to ask you (again) to unload the dishwasher. Maybe you go silent when they’re upset about how much time you spend on your phone, watching sports, or locked into a video game. […]

Welcome to my small corner of the internet.I hope this becomes a place where I can share honest reflections and where, through reading them, you find something worth sitting with. This space exists because of the work I’ve done, the people I’ve sat across from, and the questions I couldn’t stop asking. I began my […]